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Get a Ring On It: How to Get Your Significant Other to Propose

8 Feb

With Valentine’s Day only a week away, I thought I’d give some advice on how to get your significant other to pop the question, propose, or my personal favorite, thanks to Beyonce, put a ring on it. I’ve been giving it a lot of thought lately because of a couple I met at my company’s holiday party this past December. As Mr. Donut and I were getting to know Jim and Debi, they asked us how long we had been dating? I dread this question because once we tell people how long we’ve been together, it is immediately followed by why haven’t you guys gotten married yet? Don’t you want to get married?  What’s the hold up?  What people don’t realize is when you’ve been with someone since you were a teenager, eight years really isn’t a long time.   Regardless, I hate to lie, so I told them the truth, eight years.  To that we got the expected confused head tilt to the side, and then, “You’re not married yet?”  To that we responded with our usual statement of, no not yet, it will probably happen one day, just not right now.

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‘Cause I’m Keeping It Real

19 Jan

No I’m not gonna shave my head, but I immediately thought of this scene from the movie Clueless when I decided on the title of my post.  Just like Murray, I gotta keep it real.  Although it may appear I cook like a maniac, appearances can be deceiving. I recently sat down and went through my bank statements for 2010 and about 40-50% of my purchases were food related. That breaks down to a ridiculous amount of takeout, lunches from the Deli around the corner, and worst of all fast food. After crunching some numbers I probably ate out on average 3-5 times a week. For me that’s insane! I love to cook! What happened?

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Tortilla Española

9 Nov

This picture was taken in Parque Güell, (Güell Park) with the beautiful city of Barcelona, Spain, as its backdrop.  I was visiting the city over the summer, and I was fortunate enough to have a guided tour of the park by my cousin Karina.  Not only was it my first time in Barcelona, but it was the first time I’d ever met my cousin.  I did not know what to expect as she spoke no English and I speak Spanglish.  After giving a tour of the park she asked, “Tienes hambre?” (Are you hungry?) After a long, hot day in Barcelona I said, “Claro, que si!” (Of course!)  Then the most amazing thing happened.  Karina said she was going to make an authentic Spanish dinner.  I had to hold my composure, I was too excited to finally get a home cooked meal.

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Why One Big Mix?

1 Nov

If I had to describe myself then that’s exactly what I’d say.  I am one big mix, although some might say one big mess.  I can laugh at this because yes my closet can be a little chaotic, my hair a bit untidy, I never settle, and my resume is filled with random jobs.  However, the chaos always seems to end when I enter my kitchen.  Cooking is the one thing I’ve never frayed from and food has always been at the center of my life.  It is the one thing that I can talk for hours about, stay up all night preparing and continues to inspire me.

I grew up and still live in Northern Virginia, which is a nice fusion of city, suburban, and thanks to my Mamaw, that’s Grandma for all you city folk, country living.  Having an American Mother and immigrant Father gave me opportunities to experience the most wonderful mixture of food and culture.  I was raised on good ol’ southern cooking as well as spicy Latin American cuisine.  Have you ever had potato salad with frijoles fritos (refried beans)?

I love to make comfort food, because isn’t that what memories are made of?  Cooking brings back memories of my parents, my friends, and my childhood.  It takes me to places I’ve never been, it’s a wonderful icebreaker, a good way to get to know people, and it’s just outright fun!  Meals are like moments in time, capturing events that give small glimpses into beautiful stories.  I’ve always been interested in the stories behind a great dish.  Listening to my Mother and Mamaw talk about how they came up with recipes, has made me realize that the best meals are simple, inexpensive, and don’t require a lot of ingredients.  One of my Mamaw’s favorite sayings is, “You can always make something out of nothing.”  Ain’t that the truth? Yet, when it comes to cooking people make it seem so difficult.

My Mamaw’s saying has slowly become my cooking mantra, and I think the reason why I created my blog.  I don’t know how many times I’ve been at a friend’s house and they tell me let’s go out, I have nothing to eat.  In fact, I too have fallen victim to this I have nothing to eat syndrome.  Well enough is enough, time to roll up our sleeves and actually start cooking the foods we buy.  Time to use  that bottle of red wine vinegar that you used for one recipe and never thought of anything else to make it with.  Hmm, red wine vinegar?  I could do something with that. There I go again, always thinking of different food combination’s and what I could make out of them.  I guess that’s why I really am one big mix.